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Post by Deleted on May 30, 2019 15:55:46 GMT -5
If you're fit/healthy and have a decent job, why are you still single? Why is that the case for so many men these days, including blue pilled men?
One theory that I think is probably true... women are hyper-selective in this day & age, since they get so much of the attention they crave from social media (and therefore, meet & date men in person far less). Also, with social media, they can view hundreds or thousands of men in short period of time, allowing women to select & focus their attention on only men who they view as top tier and ignore all the rest.
Of course, that's only part of the reason relatively few people are settling down, marrying, and having kids these days, compared to the past. Another reason is that feminism teaches women that they are "strong and independent" and they don't need men. So they focus on their education & careers up through their 30's and don't start taking the idea of marriage seriously until their biological clock is about to run out. By that age, men are less attracted to them because men are, thanks to evolution, instinctively attracted to women who appear more youthful & fertile. So it's a double whammy. Women spend their youth on education & career (and perhaps riding the CC)... they wait too long to get married and, by the time they do want marriage, fewer men are interested.
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Post by ForRealTho on May 30, 2019 16:37:51 GMT -5
If you're fit/healthy and have a decent job, why are you still single? Why is that the case for so many men these days, including blue pilled men? I can't speak for all men or women as to why more people are single. I personally prefer being alone. I'm not really interested in having kids and for a lot of women that is a huge deal breaker. I don't subscribe to hating your exes so I am actually friends with one of mine, her and her husband have 3 kids. Good on her. I don't want that at all. When I was in high school I remember being jealous when girls would go on about "hot guys" because I knew I was just average with my only standout feature being above 6' tall. In my early 20s I started hitting the gym hardcore and buying clothes besides tshirts and jeans. Did a hell of a job letting me date better looking girls, becoming a "Chad' isn't that hard if you are willing to work on it and aren't completely autistic. I even ended up dating a girl who is a professional model and looks like a barbie doll. Kinda hard for me to buy into all these philosophies written by bitter men if a nerd like me who had Voodoo 2 SLI in high school is able to work on himself and pull girls like that.
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Post by Deleted on May 30, 2019 16:57:27 GMT -5
If you're fit/healthy and have a decent job, why are you still single? Why is that the case for so many men these days, including blue pilled men? I can't speak for all men or women as to why more people are single. I personally prefer being alone. I'm not really interested in having kids and for a lot of women that is a huge deal breaker. I don't subscribe to hating your exes so I am actually friends with one of mine, her and her husband have 3 kids. Good on her. I don't want that at all. When I was in high school I remember being jealous when girls would go on about "hot guys" because I knew I was just average with my only standout feature being above 6' tall. In my early 20s I started hitting the gym hardcore and buying clothes besides tshirts and jeans. Did a hell of a job letting me date better looking girls, becoming a "Chad' isn't that hard if you are willing to work on it and aren't completely autistic. I even ended up dating a girl who is a professional model and looks like a barbie doll. Kinda hard for me to buy into all these philosophies written by bitter men if a nerd like me who had Voodoo 2 SLI in high school is able to work on himself and pull girls like that. It sounds like you're lumping them together with incels. Bear in mind we're talking about red pill MGTOWS, not incels. Simply dating women (even hot ones) isn't a real challenge with this category of men. Rather, sustaining a happy, lasting marriage with kids is what many of these men once wanted (before going MGTOW). Tradcon seems unattainable to many of them. i.e. they want more than you out of their relationships. They've set the bar much higher than you've set it. Many of them would prefer to be Tradcons, but took the "red pill" because they no longer see Tradcon as realistic. So they've adopted MGTOW instead. I agree bitterness isn't healthy. But I can certainly understand their feelings and needing to temporarily vent their frustrations about the current state of society. But yeah, at some point, they need to let go and get on with their lives, whether they decide to give women another try or focus on their passions & hobbies. Edit: Bold added by me. I was thinking about this the other day and how we men overvalue beauty. Certainly, looks are important. However, imo, it's a mistake if that's your primary metric for choosing a partner. Personally, after my 20's, I've avoided opportunities to date air-headed barbie dolls and, instead, went for smarter women (who weren't models, but still acceptable looking). Actually, the last one I dated had both looks and intelligence, but she had other issues. Of course, I don't know the intelligence level of the women you dated. But that's just what comes to mind when you evoke the image of a barbie doll. lol Aaron "Asshole" Clarey does a good job covering this topic.
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Post by Emig5m on May 30, 2019 20:22:41 GMT -5
If you're fit/healthy and have a decent job, why are you still single? Why is that the case for so many men these days, including blue pilled men? One theory that I think is probably true... women are hyper-selective in this day & age, since they get so much of the attention they crave from social media (and therefore, meet & date men in person far less). Also, with social media, they can view hundreds or thousands of men in short period of time, allowing women to select & focus their attention on only men who they view as top tier and ignore all the rest. Of course, that's only part of the reason relatively few people are settling down, marrying, and having kids these days, compared to the past. Another reason is that feminism teaches women that they are "strong and independent" and they don't need men. So they focus on their education & careers up through their 30's and don't start taking the idea of marriage seriously until their biological clock is about to run out. By that age, men are less attracted to them because men are, thanks to evolution, instinctively attracted to women who appear more youthful & fertile. So it's a double whammy. Women spend their youth on education & career (and perhaps riding the CC)... they wait too long to get married and, by the time they do want marriage, fewer men are interested. I think you pretty much nailed it!
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Post by Ronhel on May 31, 2019 3:58:34 GMT -5
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Post by Ronhel on May 31, 2019 4:04:33 GMT -5
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Post by ForRealTho on Jun 2, 2019 21:09:07 GMT -5
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Post by Ronhel on Jun 3, 2019 4:37:34 GMT -5
Insulted London's Mayor before he even landed
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Post by Ronhel on Jun 3, 2019 6:03:31 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2019 11:01:01 GMT -5
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Post by RockBuff on Jun 3, 2019 17:56:31 GMT -5
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Post by ForRealTho on Jun 5, 2019 11:08:08 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jun 5, 2019 18:49:37 GMT -5
People used to praise iOS and Apple software for its ease of use. I've watched YT videos of people saying it's now cluttered & redundant menus - basically garbage. I've never been a huge Apple fan, but it's clear they've gone down hill from where they were since Steve Jobs passed away.
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Post by Emig5m on Jun 5, 2019 21:01:42 GMT -5
People used to praise iOS and Apple software for its ease of use. I've watched YT videos of people saying it's now cluttered & redundant menus - basically garbage. I've never been a huge Apple fan, but it's clear they've gone down hill from where they were since Steve Jobs passed away. Yea I've always hated Apple's interfaces from single button mice to when you wanted to go up and down on your iPod playlist you didn't press up or down but dialed a dial clockwise or counter-clockwise...so fucking dumb... The only Apple product I sorta liked was the Apple IIc but that's more for the games that was on it that I liked as a kid...lol.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 6, 2019 0:54:24 GMT -5
People used to praise iOS and Apple software for its ease of use. I've watched YT videos of people saying it's now cluttered & redundant menus - basically garbage. I've never been a huge Apple fan, but it's clear they've gone down hill from where they were since Steve Jobs passed away. Yea I've always hated Apple's interfaces from single button mice to when you wanted to go up and down on your iPod playlist you didn't press up or down but dialed a dial clockwise or counter-clockwise...so fucking dumb... The only Apple product I sorta liked was the Apple IIc but that's more for the games that was on it that I liked as a kid...lol.
I played many games on an Apple IIe at a friend's house. The Apple II games were a lot of fun.
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Post by ForRealTho on Jun 6, 2019 15:33:08 GMT -5
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Post by Cop on Jun 7, 2019 12:49:51 GMT -5
That second to last series of pics, the pic of the show is mirrored. It looks like they're sitting in the wrong order but in fact they're sitting in the correct order, it's just that the picture is wrong. I rechecked the episode.
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Post by ForRealTho on Jun 7, 2019 23:55:46 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2019 9:49:04 GMT -5
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Post by RockBuff on Jun 8, 2019 18:10:29 GMT -5
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